Weddings are an emotional rollercoaster. From the moment the day begins, couples experience a mix of nerves, excitement, and love. As a wedding photographer, my job is to capture all of those raw emotions. I will make sure to help you look stunning in each frame and deliver natural wedding photos of your day. In this guide, I’ll show you how I approach relaxed, natural wedding photography, so you can feel at ease and enjoy every moment of your special day.
Overcoming Pre-Wedding Nerves
Every couple faces pre-wedding jitters, but trust me—it’s completely normal! My job is to make sure those nerves don’t steal the spotlight. That’s why I always start the morning with a casual chat, a smile, and good vibes to set a positive tone for the day. The last thing I want to do is point my camera at you the moment I walk through the door. Instead, I ease into the day, allowing the bridal party to relax before I start capturing those candid, intimate moments.
As the day unfolds, the nerves will melt away after the “I dos,” and that’s when the magic happens. To create natural wedding photos, I tell the wedding party: “Don’t worry, I don’t bite. Just smile, cry, or laugh, and forget I’m even here!” The key is not to pose or freeze when you see me coming with the camera—that’s what makes you look unnatural and, let’s face it, a bit awkward. The best photos come from those in-between moments, where you’re just being yourself. It’s all about being in the moment and feeling free to enjoy the day.
When you choose a photographer you feel a connection with, you’ll forget the camera is even there. That’s why I aim to be more than just a photographer—I’m a friend helping you create and capture the joy of your day.
Finding Your Perfect Match Photographer
Choosing the right photographer goes beyond just liking their portfolio; it’s about finding someone you connect with on a personal level. This applies to both sides—the couple and the photographer. Many times, a photographer may recognize that they’re not the right fit, whether it’s due to differences in vision, energy, or style.
That’s why I always ask my potential couples to hop on a brief video call before making any decisions. A pre-wedding consultation or a Zoom call is a great first step. It gives you a chance to get to know your photographer and see if the vibe is right. Even better, book a pre-wedding photoshoot to test how you feel in front of the camera with them.
This can help shake off any nerves and gives you a sense of what it will be like on the big day. The right photographer will be someone who not only takes beautiful photos but also makes you feel at ease. They’ll understand that every wedding is unique and will be able to adapt to your energy and style. Whether you’re shy or laid-back, your photographer should make you feel confident and comfortable so that your true self shines through in every shot.
Curious about how I capture those effortless, natural wedding photos?
Check out this post where I walk you through my approach to shooting couples’ portraits on the wedding day. It’s full of tips to help you feel relaxed and get stunning, authentic shots!